Judith Okoli, a Nigerian nurse, has captured attention and stirred debate online after giving up her nursing career in the United States to relocate back to Nigeria.
At a time when many Nigerians are striving to move abroad for better opportunities, Okoli’s bold decision has raised eyebrows and ignited discussions on social media.
In a video circulating online, Okoli addressed the flood of questions she’s received about her choice.
Speaking in Pidgin English, she said, “People keep asking, ‘Why would you leave America? Are you okay? You wan suffer for Naija?’”
She responded with clarity and conviction: “I hope people understand that money isn’t everything — at least not for everyone. Definitely not for me.”
Okoli explained that her move was not made on a whim, but after deep introspection. Over time, she realized that wealth alone doesn’t guarantee happiness or a meaningful life.
“You can be earning N100 and still feel miserable — disrespected at work, stressed out, and disconnected from life. Meanwhile, someone earning N50 might be content, spending time with loved ones, sleeping peacefully, and enjoying real peace of mind. For me, it’s about the quality of life,” she shared.
She also voiced concern over the impact of chasing money in foreign countries, noting how it often tears families apart and shifts focus from what truly matters — love, connection, and inner peace.
“Look at what the Western lifestyle is doing to us. Families are broken — one child in Germany, another in Canada, someone else in Dubai. Siblings don’t see each other for years. All in the name of a ‘better life,’ but we forget about living a good life,” she said.
Okoli’s story has sparked powerful conversations around values, priorities, and what it truly means to live a fulfilling life.